“Coronaviress”

BB60D3C5-264B-46F7-B273-F1E366C80A4F“Everything is cancelled.”

All of his questions have the same response. I don’t know – everything is cancelled. We can’t do that right noweverything is cancelled. We can’t go there right noweverything is cancelled. When you have a sensory kid with CVI who exists on certainty and routine and predictability and structure, providing normalcy and certainty right now feels impossible. In this time of coronavirus, his CVI, his sensory experience, his worries, are not cancelled. Continue reading ““Coronaviress””

Hard things

56949203_1274585616029042_2413379197780099072_oIt is hard to be the constant bearer of hard things. Hard to tell him about yet another appointment. Hard to tell him about another assessment. Hard to tell him about a new diagnosis. Hard to tell him about, perhaps, another intervention. Hard to tell him it’s an early pick up day, because a change in routine is hard. You do not look for more things, but you follow up. You do all you can now, in the hope of making life easier for him down the road. Nobody said parenting a child with cortical visual impairment (CVI) is easy. Nobody said it today. Continue reading “Hard things”

Parenting a child with a disability challenges who we are

Parenting a child with a disability challenges who you are
Parenting a child with a disability challenges who you are

We don’t always talk about it but the truth is that parenting a child with a disability challenges who we are. It challenges us as the parents that we would like to be, the parents that we planned to be. In so many ways, parenting a child with a disability challenges our very nature, whoever we have come to be.
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